Cross Swords / Crossing Swords

Cross swords, also called crossing swords, is informal adult slang for a sexual activity involving genital contact between male partners. Usage can vary between communities and individuals, so the phrase is not a complete description of anyone’s interests, orientation, or limits. Direct consent matters more than a colloquial label.

Why This Term Matters

Terms used casually in adult spaces may carry different meanings for different people. Clarifying language helps avoid turning a broad reference into an unwelcome assumption.