FFM / FMF

FFM and FMF are shorthand labels often used for a three-person dynamic involving two women and one man. Different people use the order of the letters differently, so the letters alone do not explain everyone’s role, interest, or expectation.

Why This Term Matters

Short labels can be helpful in a profile or search filter, but they can also create assumptions. A respectful conversation makes room for individual interests and avoids treating any person as a category or accessory to someone else’s plan.