Negotiation

In the lifestyle and BDSM communities, negotiation refers to the explicit conversation that happens before any sexual or play encounter. Negotiation covers what activities are welcome, what is off-limits, safe words, health and testing status, contraception preferences, and any other relevant boundaries or expectations. Good negotiation is the foundation of safe, enjoyable experiences. It is not a mood-killer — it is a sign of respect and care for everyone involved. Negotiation can be a brief conversation or a detailed discussion depending on the complexity of the planned encounter.