DTR (Define the Relationship)

DTR, or "Define the Relationship," is a pivotal negotiation where partners explicitly discuss their dating intentions to establish mutual understanding and commitment levels. This process involves moving beyond ambiguous social cues to create a formal relationship agreement that outlines exclusivity, boundaries, and shared expectations. In the Velmora community, a successful DTR session ensures all parties are aligned on their lifestyle goals, often incorporating specific frameworks like how to set lifestyle rules that actually work to ensure the connection remains consensual, transparent, and sustainable for everyone involved.